Twyman Towery
Twyman L. Towery
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Volume 10 - Report 2
September, 2008
"IT IS BETTER TO SPEND MONEY LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW THAN TO SPEND TONIGHT LIKE THERE IS NO MONEY."
Twyman L. Towery, Ph.D., LFACHE
Speaker * Author * Consultant * Facilitator
Rule 31 Listed Civil/Family Mediator

P.J. O'Rourke was obviously speaking to Americans when he spoke these words, for this is certainly how we have been living our lives and running our businesses. Our nation seems to subscribe to the axiom:

"THE GREATEST LUXURY OF RICHES IS THAT THEY ENABLE YOU TO ESCAPE SO MUCH GOOD ADVICE."
- Sir Arthur Helps

It's not like we haven't been warned, viewed the storm clouds, known since childhood ball games that "what goes up must come down." But we have developed a sort of cynicism about money. As Mark Twain said:

"HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY-WHEN THERE IS MONEY IN IT."

Or we can outwardly smirk that we don't care about money while flaunting our success with it. As Shaquille O'neal playfully observed:

I'M TIRED OF HEARING ABOUT MONEY, MONEY, MONEY, MONEY, MONEY. I JUST WANT TO PLAY THE GAME, DRINK PEPSI, WEAR REEBOK.


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We began to view money as a way to "opt out" of society, rather than as simply one integral part of life that is needed to "opt in" Rita Rudner personifies this when she said:

"SOME DAY I WANT TO BE RICH. SOME PEOPLE GET SO RICH THEY LOSE ALL RESPECT FOR HUMANITY. THAT'S HOW RICH I WANT TO BE."

And it is easy enough to allow this cynicism to pick up the accompanying emotional baggage of selfishness. What we so desperately want for ourselves, we eschew for others:

"IT IS IN THE CHARACTER OF VERY FEW MEN TO HONOR WITHOUT ENVY A FRIEND WHO HAS PROSPERED."
- Aeschylus

Or the way we define an Acquaintance:

"A PERSON WHOM WE KNOW WELL ENOUGH TO BORROW FROM, BUT NOT WELL ENOUGH TO LEND TO."
- Ambrose Bierce


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I've used humor to talk about money, which is presently a universal concern, but it of course is a real and serious issue for all of us. As Jules Renard said:

"I FINALLY KNOW WHAT DISTINGUISHES MAN FROM OTHER BEASTS: FINANCIAL WORRIES."

And these concerns do not lessen as we get older, for:

"YOU CAN BE YOUNG WITHOUT MONEY, BUT YOU CAN'T BE OLD WITHOUT IT."
- Tennessee Williams

We somehow forget that it is really happiness that we are seeking and begin simply seeking money. Spike Milligan captured this aberration when he said:

"ALL I ASK IS THE CHANCE TO PROVE MONEY CAN'T MAKE ME HAPPY."


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All kidding aside, many of us do find the constant pursuit of money distasteful, but also find it a necessity:

"I DON'T LIKE MONEY, ACTUALLY, BUT IT QUIETS MY NERVES."
- Brendan Behan

So, what action should we take as we worry about the state of the economy? I suggest we all suck it up and follow the lead of Robert Orben:

"EVERY DAY I GET UP AND LOOK THROUGH THE FORBES LIST OF THE RICHEST PEOPLE IN AMERICA. IF I'M NOT THERE, I GO TO WORK."


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Carpe diem
(Seize the day)



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