Twyman Towery
Twyman L. Towery
twymantowery.com
Volume 9 - Report 4
May, 2008
"DON'T EVER START A FIGHT WITH AN OLD MAN. IF HE'S TOO OLD TO FIGHT, HE WILL JUST KILL YOU."
Twyman L. Towery, Ph.D., LFACHE
Speaker * Author * Consultant * Facilitator
Rule 31 Listed Civil/Family Mediator

If you think you're getting old and "past your prime," EASE UP, you've still got abundant POWER - from your EXPERIENCE and RESILIENCE in life! Hey, spring is at its peak. The birds are chirping, the weather is glorious, lovers are flirting and all you can think about is what you haven't done in life - or even since you made your New Year's resolutions. The truth is:

"NOBODY CAN GO BACK AND START A NEW BEGINNING, BUT ANYONE CAN START TODAY AND MAKE A NEW ENDING."

This is the time of year we get what is known in sports as our "SECOND WIND." We don't necessarily change our goals or overall strategy, just our direction and tactics. We simply must RENEW our DETERMINATION.

 

"THERE ARE THINGS THAT WE NEVER WANT TO LET GO OF, PEOPLE WE NEVER WANT TO LEAVE BEHIND. BUT KEEP IN MIND THAT LETTING GO ISN'T THE END OF THE WORLD, IT’S THE BEGINNING OF A NEW LIFE."

So begin again. Let go of what is not good and helpful to you, even if you like it in some "self-defeating" way. I promise you I am doing it myself. When people enter Twelve Step or other healing programs they quickly learn to separate themselves from the people and things that hold them back and perpetuate failure.


Twyman is speaking to some of the most interesting and diverse organizations of his career this year. When you partner with Twyman for your organization's meeting or retreat, he brings the experience of other group's solutions to their challenges to you. Experience counts!

"IN CREATING, THE ONLY HARD THING'S TO BEGIN; A GRASS BLADE'S NO EASIER TO MAKE THAN AN OAK."
- James Russell Lowelle

What you specifically do for a living is immaterial to the "change process." It is the same for everyone, no matter what their challenges may be. Teachers, carpenters, philosophers or garbage collectors all benefit society - and each will have many setbacks in meeting life's challenges.

"GENIUS IS ONE PERCENT INSPIRATION AND NINETY-NINE PERCENT PERSPIRATION. I MAKE MORE MISTAKES THAN ANYONE ELSE I KNOW AND SOONER OR LATER I PATENT MOST OF THEM."
- Thomas Edison

And if you think it is "too late" to begin once more, remember:

"IT IS BETTER TO BEGIN IN THE EVENING THAN NOT AT ALL."
- English Proverb

 


Twyman's books are fun, readable and informative - but that is not their only purpose. The strategic purpose is to create a climate for change in both people and organizations. Read what people have to say about these books.

Things feel precarious and fragile in "second comings," but be confident that it is not because you have a bum or crazy idea, but rather that:

"THE BIRTHS OF ALL THINGS ARE WEAK AND TENDER AND THEREFORE WE SHOULD HAVE OUR EYES INTENT ON BEGINNINGS."
- Michel Montaigne

Sure, properly interpreting facts and figures is a given necessity, but they are the tools of implementation, not the driving force.


I need your help! Most of you have read or heard the metaphor about how Geese benefit each other by their teamwork in formation and in watching over each other. Please watch this terrific video below explaining this phenomenon. After you see it, you will understand the types of metaphorical stories I am looking for in other animals, be they Dolphins, Fox, Baboons, Dogs, or whatever. Any ideas will be appreciated and acknowledged if they end up in print. Thanks....Twyman


(Only click the movie once to start, it will advance automatically)
(If the movie is not visible, click this link.)

"IT ALL BEGINS WHEN THE SOUL WOULD HAVE ITS WAY WITH YOU."
- Michel Montaigne

Does that call for free-fall thinking, brainstorming, crossing boundaries and letting your eccentric side have wings? You bet!

"TO GET TO THE CENTRE OF THINGS, YOU SOMETIMES HAVE TO GET TO THE EDGE FIRST."
- Curtis Gillespie

Welcome inner turmoil and questioning as a friend, not an enemy.

"WE WILL EITHER FIND A WAY, OR MAKE ONE."
- Hannibal

"Making a way" does not imply force as much as it does creativity. It is letting our soul "have its way" and exploring boundaries. Remember:

"DON'T WORRY ABOUT PEOPLE STEALING YOUR IDEAS. IF YOUR IDEAS ARE ANY GOOD, YOU'LL HAVE TO RAM THEM DOWN PEOPLE'S THROATS."
- Howard Aiken


Call Twyman at any time to discuss your organization and the new direction you would like to see it take. His combination of a Ph.D. in Organizational Psychology, years of hands-on corporate experience and down to earth demeanor will help him empathize with you immediately. Phone now 615 370-3587

So, sure it's going to be a battle, a test of wills. But now is the time to err on the side of action, for:

"TWENTY YEARS FROM NOW YOU WILL BE MORE DISAPPOINTED BY THE THINGS YOU DIDN'T DO THAN BY THE ONES YOU DID. SO THROW OFF THE BOW LINES. SAIL AWAY FROM THE SAFE HARBOR. CATCH THE TRADE WINDS IN YOUR SAILS. EXPLORE."
- Mark Twain

This is all really about you and what makes you happy and fulfilled as a person, in spite of the things that go wrong and that we can't control.

"DON'T ASK WHAT THE WORLD NEEDS. RATHER ASK - WHAT MAKES YOU COME ALIVE."

Funny how the world DOES need us when we do COME ALIVE (again)!

 
Carpe diem
(Seize the day)
 

Planning a corporate retreat? Need a keynote speaker?
Workshop facilitator? Problem mediation?

Twyman will tailor his presentation to fit the needs of your organization.
Twyman L. Towery, Ph.D., LFACHE
tt@twymantowery.com
http://www.twymantowery.com
Phone: (615) 370-3587 * Fax: (615) 661-8944


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