Twyman Towery
twymantowery.com
Volume 5 - Report 7
December, 2005
“A TRULY HAPPY PERSON IS ONE WHO CAN ENJOY THE SCENERY ON A DETOUR.”

Twyman L. Towery, Ph.D., LFACHE
Speaker * Author * Consultant * Facilitator * Rule 31 Listed Civil Mediator
Website: http://www.twymantowery.com Email: tt@twymantowery.com

“THE SECRET OF LIFE IS HONESTY AND FAIR DEALING.  IF YOU CAN FAKE THAT, YOU'VE GOT IT MADE.”
Groucho Marx
This was my last quote in last month's newsletter. I got more feedback from that newsletter - (about finally directing your own course in life) - than any other I have written.

O.K., YOU MADE IT. YOU DON'T HAVE TO FAKE IT ANY MORE. YOU CAN FINALLY BE YOURSELF, FOLLOW YOUR DREAM. NOW WHAT? No matter what your age, family status, or position in your work life may be, it is never too early to dream AND PLAN for the life you have worked, or are still working, for.
“IF YOU HESITATE BECAUSE YOU FEAR FAILURE...YOU HAVE ALREADY FAILED.”
James Arthur Ray
Remember:
“FOR THE MOST PART, FEAR IS NOTHING BUT AN ILLUSION. WHEN YOU SHARE IT WITH SOMEONE ELSE, IT TENDS TO DISAPPEAR.”
Marilyn C. Barrick, Psychologist and Writer
The first step requires not being afraid to dream. As Vincent Van Gough said: "I DREAM MY PAINTING AND THEN I PAINT MY DREAM."

What they say about Twyman: "The knowledge and wisdom you passed on to us will be with us for a long time and hopefully make us better people. We have received many great comments about your presentation and how it fit in so well with the drastic changes going on in our industry right now. I hope to have you back again soon."
Bob Weglein - E.V.P., Wood Moulding and Millwork Producers Association

Plan your corporate retreat with Twyman now.
Call (615) 370-3587 Website: http://www.twymantowery.com Email: tt@twymantowery.com

And then, As the Nike ad proclaims:

"JUST DO IT!," because if you don't, you will find that EVEN IF YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT TRACK, YOU'LL GET RUN OVER IF YOU JUST SIT THERE. But how to get started?
“DO THE THING AND YOU WILL GET THE ENERGY TO DO THE THING.”
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Many of us are surprised and even FEEL GUILTY that we suddenly find ourselves yearning for a career very different than the one we trained for, even if the training took many years of hard work in graduate, medical, law, business, or any other kind of school, plus many physical, mental and emotional moves in our work. Now we have BEEN THERE, DONE THAT and we are ready for a new and different challenge.

But your spouse thinks you are crazy and is afraid you will lose the home and both end up in the poor-house. Your kids (regardless of age) are talking about having you committed. Your company thinks you are ungrateful and your ideas are nutty. Just remember:
“PEOPLE WILL ACCEPT YOU'RE IDEAS MUCH MORE READILY IF YOU TELL THEM BENJAMIN FRANKLIN SAID IT FIRST.”
Anonymous

More about Twyman: "You help us think more clearly about ourselves"
May Dean Eberling, WTVF

Annual meeting, seminar or retreat coming up? Let Twyman Towery help you make it a truly memorable event.
Call (615) 370-3587 Website: http://www.twymantowery.com Email: tt@twymantowery.com

As Gilda Radner said:
“I WANTED A PERFECT ENDING...NOW I'VE LEARNED; THE HARD WAY, THAT SOME POEMS DON'T RHYME, AND SOME STORIES DON'T HAVE A CLEAR BEGINNING, MIDDLE AND END. LIFE IS ABOUT NOT KNOWING, HAVING TO CHANGE, TAKING THE MOMENT, AND MAKING THE BEST OF IT, WITHOUT KNOWING WHAT'S GOING TO HAPPEN NEXT. DELICIOUS AMBIGUITY.”
In other words, "NOT KNOWING WHERE YOU ARE GOING, BUT KNOWING THAT YOU ARE ON YOUR WAY" may not be the worst thing in the world, at least for a while.

But no matter what stage of life you find yourself in, remember:
“THE MORE YOU READ THE MORE THINGS YOU WILL KNOW. THE MORE THAT YOU LEARN THE MORE PLACES YOU'LL GO.”
Dr. Seuss

Need late Christmas gifts for your managers, executives, employees and friends? Twyman's books are not only entertaining and packed with wisdom, but send the kind of powerful, positive message that will represent you and your philosophy admirably.
AND DON'T FORGET THE PEOPLE IN YOUR ORGANIZATION WHEN IT COMES TO CONTINUING EDUCATION (An example of how to do it)
Covenant Reliance Producers, LLC's Founder and CEO Matthew Rettick has long felt there is much he and his employees could learn, and, in turn be motivated by what they read in books. So he instituted a monthly reading program at CRP that works like this: Rettick selects a book each month (often from employee suggestions). Each employee is offered a copy of the selected book to read and keep. At the end of the month, the employee writes a report about the book and how reading it affects their work lives at CRP, or how it affects them personally. As an incentive, Rettick pays each employee $100 for reading the book and writing the report. As an extra incentive, Rettick reads the reports and chooses the best one. The person who wrote that one is given an extra $100 dollar bill at the monthly staff meeting.

I found out about this great program by one of Rettick's enthusiastic employees, Corbi Wallingford. My book, "The Wisdom of Wolves: Nature's way To Organizational Success," had been chosen by Rettick and Corbi liked it so much she passed it on to her mother, who passed it on to her fellow executives within her company, The Brain Garden. Several of them then purchased my book.

MY, HOW FAST GOOD NEWS TRAVELS AND GOOD DEEDS BEGET GOOD DEEDS!
So, lets all get started planning for our new life in the coming year. Remember:
“To me, old age is only 15 years older than I am.”
Bernard M. Baruch (1870-1965) Presidential Advisor
Carpe diem
(Seize the day)

Planning a corporate retreat? Need a keynote speaker? Workshop facilitator? Problem mediation?
Twyman will tailor his presentation to fit the needs of your organization.
Twyman L. Towery, Ph.D., LFACHE
tt@twymantowery.com
http://www.twymantowery.com
Phone: (615) 370-3587 * Fax: (615) 661-8944

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or
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