Twyman Towery
Twyman L. Towery
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Volume 10 - Report 1
August, 2008
"THESE ARE THE DAYS WHEN IT TAKES ALL YOU'VE GOT JUST TO KEEP UP WITH THE LOSERS."
- Robert Orben

Twyman L. Towery, Ph.D., LFACHE

Speaker * Author * Consultant * Facilitator
Rule 31 Listed Civil/Family Mediator

We live in a free enterprise; capitalist society where competition is fierce and WINNING often becomes the goal in everything we do. The recent Olympics were a beautiful example of what a difference 100th of a second can make. But, NO ONE is going to win all of the time at everything.

"If you make every game a life and death proposition, you're going to have problems. For one thing, you'll be dead a lot."
- Dean Smith

Picking our competitive battles selectively and saving the others for fun is a necessity, not a wimpy luxury:

"You must not fight too often with one enemy, or you will teach him all your tricks of war."
- Napoleon Bonaparte


Twyman is speaking to some of the most interesting and diverse organizations of his career this year. When you partner with Twyman for your organization's meeting or retreat, he brings the experience of other group's solutions to their challenges to you. Experience counts!

The important thing is to prepare as best we can and learn from each encounter:

"You must sacrifice, train, do everything possible to put yourself in a position to win. But if you consider second or third a failure, I feel sorry for you."
- Joe Falcon

Learning should be a life-long endeavor and to consider being second or third a LOSS is to show ignorance of the "life process."

"When you want to win a game, you have to teach. When you lose a game, you have to learn."
- Tom Landry

When we reach a certain level, everyone is smart, competent and good at what they do. When everyone is of fairly equal ability:

"The ability to learn faster than your competitors may be the only sustainable competitive advantage."
- Arie de Geus

Even Bobby Knight, the legendary coach known as much for his embarrassing physical outbursts as for his incredible winning ways implores:

"Mental toughness is to physical as four is to one".
- Bobby Knight


Twyman's books are fun, readable and informative - but that is not their only purpose. The strategic purpose is to create a climate for change in both people and organizations. Let these economical, but powerful books be your Christmas gift to employees, friends and family. Get that chore taken care of NOW! Read what people have to say about these books.

We often make the mistake of believing that competition means beating, humiliating, or banishing the "opponent." We forget that:

"There is nothing noble in being superior to some other person. The true nobility is in being superior to your previous self."
- Indian Proverb

After all:
"The only competition worthy of a wise man is with himself".
- Anon

It is undeniable that there are many similarities between competition in sports, card and board games and the very serious "competition" in business and the professions:

"If you know your strength it never becomes a weakness. If the market knows your strength then it becomes a weakness."
- Shailendra Singh

And one of the greatest weaknesses we can face is the complacency that often accompanies success:

"The time your game is most vulnerable is when you're ahead, never let up."
- Rod Laver

And we should never underestimate the importance of mental confidence (which emanates from preparedness) and toughness:

"Competitive golf is played mainly on a five-and-a-half-inch course, the space between your ears."
- Bobby Jones


Mediation of disputes is far preferable to the expense, bad publicity and time required for litigation. Twyman is an experienced, qualified General Civil/Family Mediator. Talk it over at 615-370--3587....(more info)

But beware of the people who espouse the greatness of competition, free enterprise and entrepreneurship while secretly trying to avoid it by controlling others, both personally and organizationally:

"Like many businessmen of genius he learned that free competition was wasteful, monopoly efficient. And so he simply set about achieving that efficient monopoly."
- Mario Puzo

We should avoid these misguided individuals and the organizations where they reside, so we will not be there when their comeuppance occurs. For:

"Every man in the world is better than someone else and not as good someone else."
- William Saroyan

In conclusion - we are in a competitive world and being competitive when it counts is a must, not an option. Just keep in mind that:

"After the game the King and pawn go into the same box."
- Italian Proverb

 

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Carpe diem
(Seize the day)



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Twyman is qualified in both civil and family mediation. Got a troublesome situation?
Call (615) 370-3587 Website: http://www.twymantowery.com
Email: tt@twymantowery.com


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